Should you test a psychic?
Ever found yourself wondering, "How do I test a psychic to see if they’re real?" or “how will I know if my psychic reader is authentic?” If so, you're not alone! People often feel nervous before their first reading, and it's perfectly understandable to want reassurance. But before you start quizzing your psychic about your childhood pet or your grandmother’s maiden name, let’s talk about a better way to choose the right psychic for you.
IS It Possible To Test a Psychic?
The short answer? Not really. Psychics work in different ways, and while some might be able to tell you specific facts about your past, many of us focus on helping you navigate your present and future. The real test of a good psychic is whether their guidance resonates with you and proves valuable over time. Instead of playing "test the psychic," focus on finding someone you trust and feel comfortable with.
Rather than grilling your psychic like they’re on a game show, here’s what I believe you should do to ensure you’re getting a real, professional reading:
- Let your Psychic Reader Speak First
One thing I always tell people—don’t give away what you want to know upfront! A genuine psychic should be able to tune in and tell you key details before you even ask. If they start fishing for information, be cautious. You’re there for their insights, not to supply them with clues. Also, don’t get carried away adding details once they start talking—give them the space to tell you what they pick up without guiding them. Keep your answers brief—"yes," "no," "I’m not sure," or "it’s more complicated"—to avoid unintentionally leading them.
- Be Clear on What You Want Help With
BEFORE YOU BOOK you need to consider a few points. Are you seeking guidance on love, career, or life path decisions? Do you want to connect with a passed loved one? Different psychics have different specialities, so knowing what you need will help you pick the right reader. But again—hold back on sharing too much at the start!
- Do Your Research
Would you pick a dentist, therapist, or life coach without checking their credentials? Probably not! The same goes for psychics. Look at their website, read testimonials, and check out reviews. Most professional psychics have an online presence that gives you an insight into their style and experience.
- Trust Your Intuition
Your gut feeling is a powerful tool! If a psychic’s profile, photo, or words don’t sit right with you, move on. A real psychic won’t pressure you to book a session or make grand promises. You should feel drawn to them naturally.
- Be Wary of Red Flags
- Fishing for information – A good psychic won’t need to extract details from you to build their reading.
- Scare tactics – If a psychic claims you’re cursed and need to pay extra to remove it, run the other way!
- Changing predictions – If their story shifts after they learn more about you, they may just be good at guessing.
- Unrealistic promises – No psychic can guarantee exact dates or make someone fall in love with you. (If only!)
Tips To Get The Best Psychic Reading
To make the most of your session, keep these tips in mind:
- Relax and keep an open mind – The best readings happen when you're not tense or sceptical.
- Take notes – Insights may make more sense later, so jot things down for reflection.
- Be honest but don’t overshare – You don’t have to spill your life story, but being open helps the reading flow.
- Set a time limit – If you’re using a per-minute service, set a timer so you don’t go over budget.
- Give the reading time to unfold – Not everything will make sense immediately, but that doesn’t mean it won’t be meaningful later. The best psychic is not just someone who delivers accurately, but the one who fits you best.
My own viewpoint
Let me be direct: I just have to be honest, hate it when a client is on a mission to test me. It happens most when (usually a lady) books me and drags an unwilling party (usually a male partner) who wants scientific evidence as opposed to allowing for things their eye can’t see.
This is not because I am a fake, but because it can make me completely doubt myself and lose my confidence. Here are some ways you can tell me apart from others:
- I will shut you down if you tell me too much, I say at the start not to say anything more than yes, no, I’m not sure or, it’s more complicated. (I do of course allow you questions after I’ve “gone in blind”
- My gold standard is to attempt revealing what your questions are before you ask them. Sometimes that isn’t how it unfolds but I have a fair guarantee policy anyway.
- My track-record speaks for itself with over 500 reviews on multiple sites all over the internet.
- Many of my clients rely on me on a regular basis as opposed to once or twice a year. I’m totally invested and seek to bring as much clarity in detail as I possibly can.
Final Thought: It’s About Connection
The best psychic for you is someone you feel comfortable with and who provides insights that genuinely help. So instead of trying to "catch them out," focus on finding someone whose energy feels right. And if you’re ready for a reading, I’d love to chat with you over at Chat 2 Charlie – no gimmicks, just honest, helpful guidance. 😊